A grieving husband has shared horrifying pictures of his cancer-stricken wife, Mrs Donna Elliot, who died on August 5 2017 after she was di...
A grieving husband has shared horrifying pictures of his cancer-stricken wife, Mrs Donna Elliot, who died on August 5 2017 after she was diagnosed almost a year ago.
The husband and wife healthy and happy together.
The devastating effects of cancer – wife is seen in her hospital bed, gaunt with her mouth open her bones protruding from her chest.
Mr Lowe wrote on Facebook:
‘A year ago to date (22/12/2016) my beautiful wife, my best friend, the mother to our four beautiful children, my world, my soul mate in fact my everything was given a diagnosis by Milton Keynes Hospital that would devastate our lives and change it forever.
‘Regretfully, on the morning of Saturday the 5th of August 2017, my beautiful wife passed away in my arms surrounded by our four young children, her mother, brother and sisters aged just 32 at Willen Hospice, Milton Keynes.
‘I am sharing this with you today a year after her diagnosis to encourage everyone reading this to make sure that we take it upon ourselves to ensure that the special women in our lives in fact all women in our lives be they relatives or friends to attend their cervical screening (once called smears) and not to either miss them or forget to re-arrange.
‘My wonderful wife postponed her last smear for reasons I can’t even remember, believe me I’ve tried to remember and there’s not a day goes by I wish I could swap places with her or wish I’d dragged her to the appointment and re-arranged it for her.
‘Having already spoken to some of you here I know that some haven’t had a smear in a number of years, I think the longest was 20 years.’
‘Cervical screening (smear) takes only minutes. I am aware its not the most comfortable or dignified of experiences for women to go through but the consequences of missing one devastates lives for everyone connected and will do for generations to come.
‘I wake up every morning alone, bring my kids up alone.. yes I have family around me supporting me, and I’m truly thankful for that, but it’s never the same nor will it be.‘My wife missed her last cervical screen and paid the ultimate price, she paid with her life.
‘Let’s not let other families go through this immense pain we face daily let’s fight cancer together as early detection saves lives I know this as I’m still in contact with women and their families who were being treated at the same time as my wife and who have been given the all clear.’
Mr Lowe apologised if the images were distressing, but said he ‘needed to demonstrate how devastating cancer is ‘.
The emotional post has been shared over 15,000 times.
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